Thursday, September 30, 2010

Letting Go 28 September 2010

Tuesday am
While waiting for En, @Anne Musikschule, a magazine caught my eyes.  A day before, a friend told me " I was too hard on myself as a friend and a mommy". That statement linger in my mind. And a couple of days back, I was bruised from an unpleasant incident and was 'away' for days.  When I flipped thru the magazine, I came across this,

Letting go is not to stop caring - it means I can't do it for someone else
Lettting go is not to cut myself off - it's the realisation that I can't control another
Letting go is not to enable - but to allow learning from natural consequences
Letting go is not to admit powerless - which means the outcome is not in my hands
Letting go - is not fo fix - but to be supportive, it's not to judge - but to allow another to be a human being
Letting go is not to deny- but to accept
Letting go is not to regret the past - but to grow and live for the future
Letting go is to fear less and live more.

excerpt from The Plain Truth magazine - Jul-Aug, 2007.

Is it God helping me out here ? :)  Letting go. That's it. I AM BACK.  

1 comment:

June said...

Well said! It is not easy to let go, letting go takes love.

LETTING GO TAKES LOVE
To let go does not mean to stop caring, it means I can't do it for someone else.
To let go is not to cut myself off,
it's the realization I can't control another.
To let go is not to enable,but allow learning from natural consequences.
To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.
To let go is not to try to change or blame another,it's to make the most of myself.
To let go is not to care for,but to care about.
To let go is not to fix,but to be supportive.
To let go is not to judge,but to allow another to be a human being.
To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes,
but to allow others to affect their destinies.
To let go is not to be protective,
it's to permit another to face reality.
To let go is not to deny,but to accept.
To let go is not to nag, scold or argue,but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.
To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires,but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.
To let go is not to criticize or regulate anybody, but to try to become what I dream I can be.
To let go is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.
To let go is to fear less and love more and
To let go and to let God, is to find peace !